Just do it. "So, what are you doing this weekend?"

It's better to make up what you're going to say on the spot cuz if you try to memorize your lines, you're gonna forget them and end up making up your lines anyways. Good luck, dood.

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Edited by - ElectricBrain on 20-06-2003 21:38:56

Are you friends, or did you just "watch from a safe distance"?
That info would help with the approach suggestion...


Careful what you wish... You might just get it.

We are friends, I talk to her and she talks to me. It is not like I never have talked with her. Also I smile when ever she looks at me, and she smiles back. Also when ever there are signings (yearbook and things like that) she always writes something sweet.

Hmm... That makes your question unnecessary, and your "job" a lot easier. Just talk to her as per usual, and pop in something like "It's funny how I've never told you how much I like you, and how much you mean to me... I suspect that you are aware of this, so I want to know how do you feel about this? Are we ready for something more than a friendship?"
Good luck.

And what do you mean 'probably the last time'? Think really hard: even if you get her to tell you that she feels the same, and you date once or twice, but you'll never see her again? it kinda makes the separation harder. So it's a dilemma:

if you tell her and she reciprocates, you'd regret not telling her sooner, and saying goodbye is emotionally harder.

if you DON'T tell her, saying good bye is easier, but later in the future you'll regret not telling her.

If I were you, I'd definitely tell her. The chance is dim, but some relations do survive long-distance (assuming that's your case here)

Maybe he means never see her again if he doesn't say anything. Either way, don't take any advice I may give you; I've never had much lucck with my love life...

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Just say "I don't know if you realised but i've been gagging to cop a feel all year and I thought rather than stuff around with buying flowers, dinner and the rest of that crap......."

I agree with FF, Aleks -- Tell her ASAP.I'm gonna switch to Serbian now, because I'm too lazy to translate...
Ima jedna zanimljiva anegdota, a mogla bi se primeniti i na ovu situaciju. Zamisli jedan karavan od, recimo, desetak zapreznih kola, i jedno dvadesetak ljudi. Karavan nailazi na pecinu, i vodja odliucuje da se ide kroz pecinu. Nakon sto su usli, ulaz u pecinu se obrusio i zatvorio. U pecini vlada mrkli mrak, a svece i baklje/bater-lampe nista ne osvetljavaju (svetle ali ne osvetljavaju). Na podu pecine se nalazi kamenje nepravilnog oblika (oseti se pod nogama, i uzimanjem u ruke). Kako su ljudi dirali kamenje, zacuo se prodoran glas: "Ako uzmes kamen, kajaces se... Ako ne uzmes kamen, kajaces se..." Mnogi ljudi su razmisljali sta da rade, pa su neki uzeli po jedan kamen, a neki nisu. Recimo da i ti nisi uzeo kamen. Kada su svi odlucili sta ce uraditi, istog momenta su se stvorili pred (sad zatrpanim) ulazom u pecinu. Oni koji su uzeli kamen, u rukama su drzali dijamante. Shvatas poentu? Oni koji nisu uzeli kamen kaju se zbog toga. Oni koji su uzeli jedan, kaju se sto nisu uzeli vise. Na tebi je da odlucis zelis li taj jedan dijamant, ili je bolje da ne saznas kako je to imati ga...
p.s. for all of you who do not speak Serbian, I told him a story that should help him with his decision. Nothing bad is mentioned in it.


Careful what you wish... You might just get it.

Thanks guys, it is nice when people help you about decisions. Especially thank you Chetnik. Last one really helped me. And thanks everybody else.

Well now got to wait until Monday, and it will be time to face my destiny. God this will be longest weekend in my life. Hopefully everything will go as I would like to (hope she will not slap living day lights out of me after I tell her )

ask her for contacts. deal with the other stuff later. then you don't mess up. thats what i did.. tho when i told (the girl i like) that i liked her.. the situation was kinda off. it was valentines day and never bothered to find out what that day was fer. told her to be my valentine on the day on msn.. and luckyily, she didn't really know the meaning as well.. but she had a bf.. actually, 3 bf's prior to my asking, and still was on her third one.. no.. 2 bfs prior to my asking. so.. made a mess of myself, but duno why.. shes still friendly wif me.. and thats what i want right now.. btw, how old are you ?

Science is knowledge.
Knowledge is power.
Time is money.
power = work/time
therefore, knowledge= work/money
therefore, money = work/knowledge
therefore, money is inversely proportional to knowledge.

therefore,

The more knowledge you have, the less money you have.

Prepare for the worst, for you have read the worst.

You're welcome. She will not slap you. Trust me. And don't listen to kimk... He didn't try hard enough.

@chetnik (ah.. the satsfaction of bein abel to spel is overwleming)

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And don't listen to kimk... He didn't try hard enough.

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i beleive the reminder of my age is in order. i'm 14.. still have aloota life in front of me unless death is blocking hte way. so no reason to try taht hard. but if your graduating college or soemthing, then maybe you'd wanna get moving. no need to rush and if it turns out that i don't like a person that i liked b4, i dun wanna go breaking harts. *end of spam*

Science is knowledge.
Knowledge is power.
Time is money.
power = work/time
therefore, knowledge= work/money
therefore, money = work/knowledge
therefore, money is inversely proportional to knowledge.

therefore,

The more knowledge you have, the less money you have.

Prepare for the worst, for you have read the worst.

LMAO @ Mustang

i g2g with mustang on this. or, you could walk up to her and ask her to go for a drink now that school/college/university is broken up. talk about how 'its gonna be wierd not seeing each other any more' say that its not on and give her your number and ask her to a movie sometime next week if she's not busy.

simple.

-arcon
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