Love Help (done, but it did not work out)

Wed Jun 25, 2003 10:44 pm by Byr Genar-Hofoen

Praryboy's right. Call her. There's a good chance she'll be too nervous to call you, or not entirely sure if it's the right thing to do. Just remember that women are confusing creatures, and it's never possible to work out what they're really thinking...if I'd known that when I got engaged, it wouldn't have happened...not that it lasted long, but it would've been nice *sighs* Love's a real dog sometimes. Still, best of luck to you man! Really push the boat out, and I hope you do well! Oh yeah, and make sure she's damn clear about the way you feel...the worst part of any proto-relationship is not knowing how the other party feels. Be expresive with your feelings, man, and try to be as romantic as possible...it worked for me

I'd keep going, but I'd probably get told to stop being so soppy

Best of luck again mate!

Squadron Commander Byr Genar-Hofoen

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Edited by - Byr Genar-Hofoen on 25-06-2003 23:46:26

Thu Jun 26, 2003 2:20 am by Skycom

i completely agree. you really have nothing to lose.
dont say your "friendship" could be lost if she doesnt like you, because think about it -- its awkward already. Your half way there buddy, just finish the job. Ask her out, or at least ask her if she likes you.

My final suggestion is to do it SOON, im not a girl but im sure they dont stay interested very long... good luck bruddah

Thu Jun 26, 2003 5:20 am by Leonhart

Yeah I guess, but to bad I do not have her phone number.

Well there are 3 families with same last name living in same street. So I guess I have her phone number but which one of those three is it, that is a problem.

I WILL CRUSH YOU

Thu Jun 26, 2003 9:19 am by Fear Factor

You're giving up on THAT account? call the 3 numbers one by one if you have to. And don't you have graduation yearbooks? they're supposed to contain contact addresses and stuff, right? that's the whole point of having a yearbook. Or go to your school admin and ask. Or ask some friends for her phone number. Not calling her because you're afraid you're gonna call the wrong number is a lame excuse, imho.

Thu Jun 26, 2003 10:19 am by mustang

Agreed fear factor. If you really dig this chick then call all three numbers and ask for her, if they say she doesn't live here, hang up and call the next number.

Still it's a bloody nerve racking thing to do, and no matter how old you get it doesn't get any easier. Just keep in mind the first 4 rules of dating: lie, manipulate, cheat and decieve and you'll do fine.

Thu Jun 26, 2003 10:27 am by Setsuna

@Mustang: You must be REALLY successful using those rules...

I can see it now:
"You know, I've got a Ph. D."
"A Ph. D.?!"
"Yes, a Pretty Huge Dick..."
*slap!*

j/k
@leonhart: Do what you think is best... Oh, who am I kidding? Just listen to FF...

No, seriously, you wont let 3 little phone calls stop you, will you?

Careful what you wish... You might just get it.

Edited by - Chetnik on 26-06-2003 12:26:22

Thu Jun 26, 2003 11:04 am by kimk

if your still in gr8, as i know to the best of my knowledge.. i'd grab her number and her e-mail address if i were you, and hope for the best that she uses a chat engine. then sign up on that particular chat engine and start talking there.. then you won't have to get nervous. then make up a time and date or sth and go out if you can. but then again, i suck in this field. go with mustang's advice.. you'l probably do better. and don't you know guys plotting with guys against girls always end up getting backfired? its what our X-chromosomes are made for..

Thu Jun 26, 2003 12:20 pm by zlo

@Leonhart: I guess you should jus do anything you can to find things out (always worked for me). I know it's tough, but a) what do you lose?, and b) if you're not gonna see her anymore, so even if she tells someone about a guy who's been hooking her, nobody will know it was you

Ahh, sweet memories, I remember how I hooked a girl - asked her to dance, kissed her, and that's what we were doing for the rest of the evening. After 2.5 years she became my wife.

I don't have a drinking problem. I drink. I get drunk. I fall down. No problem.
(stolen from a local pub)

Thu Jul 03, 2003 5:08 pm by red

Come back here and tell us what happened after you talk to her.
Remember son, winners never quit and quitters never win.

Thu Jul 03, 2003 8:54 pm by _zero

there are 3 way's she can react:
1.she loves you to and it's happely ever after.
2.she doesn't love you and she freaks out and calls you a perv and runs away.
3.she doesn't love you but she's mature enough to understand you feelings and she explains you she feels different. and you are still friends.
3b.she doesn't love you but she's mature enough to understand you feelings and she explains you she feels different.but you love here so much being friends isn't enough so you never see eachother again.

Thu Jul 03, 2003 9:08 pm by _zero

oops I didn't know you were allready done with "the" talk

Thu Jul 03, 2003 9:33 pm by Arcon

basically your not gonna see her again, so whats to loose

-arcon
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Fri Jul 04, 2003 12:56 am by DJscratchman

go for it. as just about everyone else said you got nothing to lose

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