Proudly Shot Down In Flames

Sat Jun 05, 2004 4:47 am by The Ninja

well, it happened again.
after a couple of months i got rejected by a girl i fell in love with. im over it now, but sometimes i wonder if i will ever find a significant other. The best thing i can do is just keep trying, but its hard in my town cos most of the chicks love the 'outlaw ****'. anyway, if you wise sages here at TLR have any advice, please, share it around.

Vi

Sat Jun 05, 2004 4:52 am by freighter fighter

dont worry about it, she'll come along eventually, and when she does, dont rush things.

Sat Jun 05, 2004 4:53 am by sycho warrior

Dont go for looks and if they expect you to buy stuff for them the whole time dont go for them either

Sorry to hear bout it Vi, I hope you find the right one soon!

"...All idealization makes life poorer. To beautify it is to take away its character of complexity--it is to destroy it." Conrad
sycho_warrior

Sat Jun 05, 2004 4:57 am by veitch

is this the first time you've been rejected? if so, chill. it happens to everyone once in a while, don't worry mate. wait a bit, be friendly to her, even though she rejected you. she'll lap it up. give it a couple of weeks. send flowers and then talk again. works wonders

i only patch up most of the relationships of my friends at school. and i swear, that is a helluva lotta work

i stole the cookie from the cookie jar

Sat Jun 05, 2004 5:03 am by The Ninja

actually this is rejection no. 7 in a row. and 3 years between drinks is a long time.

Sat Jun 05, 2004 5:06 am by veitch

is this rejection number 7 of the same girl?

hope it turns out okay mate

Edited by - cookiemonster on 6/5/2004 6:12:20 AM

Sat Jun 05, 2004 5:09 am by Tawakalna

dont try so hard, when you'e looking you get nish. And I think you'll find that all the decent girls don't hang around with the outlaw types, but if you're looking at the girls who do hang around with them then you're prob looking in the wrong place. How old are you Jake btw? I went through q a few until I got to my mid 20s, believe me all good things etc.

..i was happy in the haze of a drunken hour, but heaven knows I'm miserable now..

Sat Jun 05, 2004 5:14 am by veitch

taw, when you say jake, do you mean or viator? it's just that's my name too... hmm

well i'm almost 20 and for some godforsaken reason still at school (i'm retarded

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Edited by - cookiemonster on 6/5/2004 6:18:28 AM

Sat Jun 05, 2004 5:33 am by Heltak

Chill, different things end at different times. The "heart" heals

Sat Jun 05, 2004 6:06 am by Indy11

@Vi

No substitution for trial and error experience in this area, I'm afraid. Point would be that it is more a matter of "letting it happen" and not "making it happen."

Also, the harder you try, the more desperate or obsessed you come off seeming, the more of a scare/turn off you become.

Take a more Buddhist approach to it. Assume that there is karma and go with the flow.

Sat Jun 05, 2004 6:09 am by Tawakalna

Viator used to be a guy called Jake Langley

as he said himself..

..i was happy in the haze of a drunken hour, but heaven knows I'm miserable now..

Sat Jun 05, 2004 6:50 am by The Ninja

well, for those interested, im 17 almost 18. the last gf i had was over 3 years ago, and im basically sick of being single.

Sat Jun 05, 2004 6:54 am by sycho warrior

And you feel bad?

"...All idealization makes life poorer. To beautify it is to take away its character of complexity--it is to destroy it." Conrad
sycho_warrior

Sat Jun 05, 2004 7:12 am by freighter fighter

its not so bad being single

Sat Jun 05, 2004 2:37 pm by arton alpha

yeah you get to look all you want

uh oh i feel twacks coming on *runs off disconects modem and climbs into twack shelter*
just a joke for a slow saturday

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