@FD matee he's 13 - can you not remember what it was like? I think you're being too harsh.

@abc/eggs/whoever the hell this thread is intended for - This is a point in your life when everything seems very very complicated. You may not believe me, but everybody knows the stress of teen relationships....it can be life consuming, I remember. The thing is, relationships only get easier the more practice you have. It is very likely that you will get many knock backs as you go through life, so my only advice to you is overcome the knock back fear now. Just go and chat with her, be yourself, you'll know one way or the other from the way she acts with you. The trick is to know by the way she acts how she feels about you. Many people chat to people they like and ignore the way that person is acting back - this can often end up with emotional devastation. Just get out there and do it - watch her reaction and don't ignore it! If you think she likes you, then ask her out.....the worst you can get is a "no"....and if that is the answer then try to learn the signals that you should have picked up on in the first place, it can only help you in the future.

Oh yeah, and GOOD LUCK!

No, not too harsh, I do remember 13, uncontrollable hormons(sp) and all. I just see too many young ladies and young men too into dating at a young age and then being hurt becuse the other broke it off, without aparent reason. Emotions are in high gear, you believe the world will end if you don't "be " with that special someone. I do very much undestand. It does hurt a bit.

But, neither party has a clue as to what they want in a relationship. Going to movies, game arcades? or just hanging out together. Its a time of mixed emotions, like the ones that say I broke up with them and wonder what I saw in them in the first place. You saw something that intersed you, but you lost track of it.



Edited by - Finalday on 10/21/2004 5:24:01 AM

i'd say dont even think about a relationship till you are around 18 or so, when you know what you want.

When I was 13, girls had cooties. And no financial independence when you're 20, so 13 is as good as any other age to have crushes.

When you're younger, especially, but in reality at any age, it is best to be up front about what you feel. Trying to figure out fancy ways to do it only requires you to try to make yourself say or do things that you naturally might not want to do or may not be able to do very well.

So be honest and just tell the girl you fancy her. The worst she can do is reject you. It can hurt you but only for the moment. The point would be you've saved yourself a lot of time and, presumably , learned from the experience.

Edited by - Indy11 on 10/21/2004 11:04:38 AM

My personal feeling is do what you feel is best, asking people on a forum is rarely a good idea since they don't really know the situation, even if you describe it (I say this from personal experience hehe). Just go with what you feel is right, the more you ask other people for advice, the more its someone else asking the girl out and less of you, which is the important thing in this situaiton right?

ok im 14 and i agree with what many of what u guys have said about just going for it, if you think you have a chance take it, it took me a really long time to ask my girlfriend out for the first time, but once i got up the courage to do it, it wasnt bad at all(i still cant believe she said yes, dont pay attention to that ) so basically take chances, if she says no what is the worst that could happen? i highly doubt she could hold it agianst you, and even if she said no now, whats to say that she will not "LIKE"() you in a few years, go 4 it man (but dont do it in school lol, bad idea, do it after school or somewhere else, its not pretty if a certain "type of people hear u lmao, i no form personal experience, in other word, steer clear of people who work for the school newspaper or have "zines" etc. they live for this kinda stuff lol, not to scare u or anyhting , i have said too much already, should have ened with go 4 it man lmao. so again... go 4 it man

You can run, but run fast.... 1 shot is all I need.

look at the mother and you'll see what the daughter will be like in a few years time!

never works, there was this girl in preschool with a pretty nice lookin mom(ok i was in preschool so wut, i didnt think she was nice lookin then, but i have some photos i found..) and now that girl.. well to put it nicely.. wears like 7 layers of makeup, she looks kinda like the guys in white chicks

You can run, but run fast.... 1 shot is all I need.

Lol,that mom 1 wuz funny. But anaway. I think i should do it option II. To be honest i KINDA .asked her out already. You see, my school was having a volleyball game, and i baought 2 tikets. I asked if she wanted to got but she said she couldn't. Either she would be 2 embarrased, or she was honest. Thanks 4 the replies. (P.S., this is for ABC, not Eggs, me and eggs bothe play FL and i asked him 2 write it, i wuz 2 embarrased )











Edited by - Abc on 10/21/2004 6:03:44 PM

Edited by - Abc on 10/21/2004 6:05:56 PM

Edited by - Abc on 10/21/2004 6:06:23 PM

Very shrewd move my friend, I'll have to remember that It saved you the embarrassment of revealing your feelings, and gave you the knowledge you desired.

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nows a great time to ask someone out, do u have a halloween dance at your school? those r great for first "dates" get something to eat beforehand and then u get to wear a mask the rest of the date, its amazing how much more confidence you can have when poeple cant c your face!!!

You can run, but run fast.... 1 shot is all I need.

Lol, yea. No halloween dance (darn). I am starting to think she doen't. She KINDA REAPEAT KINDA has been ignoring me lately. I'll check it out.



Edited by - Abc on 10/21/2004 6:34:05 PM

hmm, i dare not delve that deep into the minds of females, sry bro but tahts all the help i can give u lol

You can run, but run fast.... 1 shot is all I need.