If you will forgive the responce, but your still too young, at 13, to take a serious intrest in a girl. No offence intended, as I do know what feelings are like. If I had a daughter, she would do no form of dateing/seriousness with a guy for a few more years. Don't rush it, let nature take it's course.

O.K. Thanks. But u gotta understand, i really like her *blushing like a red hot bell pepper* I'll go 2 my friends. But then again, ive only known her for 4 munths. i chose TLR 'cause i would be talkin to guys with same interest as me. Pull the plug if u like


I like eggs

I'm 14, so we're roughly the same age, and I broke up with my girl a few months ago. But she wasn't exactly amazing, and I broke up with her because I realized I didn't really like her and couldn't really understand why I'd gone out with her in the first place. My mates took and still take the p*** because of that, but it was an experience for me.
A short while after, I asked out a girl I really liked. She said no, but we were still great friends.
Here's my point: you do everything for the first time. If she says no, you might still be great friends, and maybe try again when you're older.

Here is how to make it easier for yourself: ask yourself a question. "Do I want to ever find out if she would go out with me?" If you decide yes, then you will get an experience: asking a girl out. Who knows, perhaps she'll say yes (I never understand how girls think guys are handsome, so ya never know) and some good will come out of it.
If you decide no, then keep in mind that difficult day will come sometime when you''ll have to ask someone anyway. And you'll never find out how she feels.

Good luck mate

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14 is the age for dating, go for the head on aproach

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Whilst we're on the subject: I fancy a girl who a lot of my friends think is a minger. I don't want a repeat of the other one they took the mic out of me for. What should I do?

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Assuming that you're not fixated on going out with unseemly or unsightly girls, tell your friends to eff off. I bet most of your friends are too scared to ask a girl out anyway. Chalk it off to envy and ignore 'em.

Go for it Zack. And if ur wrong laugh it off with friends if your right laught at the firneds

Pffft, wait until you're 20, have a secure financial life, a good job, and a nice house. THEN get a girlfriend ....

good lord i don't like these topics...only reminds me of how lonely of a life i have at school

Take it from a married 23 year old man (ok not that old but feel like it )

You cannot be afraid of matter s of the heart. At 13 you are just starting to understand taht "ya kno women are HOT!" lol ok being serious now

When i had (see how i gotta say "had" married life...weird lol) an attraction to a schoolmate or any other chick i semi knew or jsut knew for a while...i was just honest.. cause if you are truly a friend to her you would be honest to her WITH no exceptions!!!! And i would HOPE that she would want you to be honest with her...So just wing it....the "covert: idea is clever...but too played out.

just be blunt tell her straight up..."hey listen (insert name here), i have to tell you something...i have known ya a while now and i cannot stand here and not tell you that i find you very attractive in all aspects of you, personality, physically and spiritually. I just have to be honest here...no need to hide things from a friend right. SO you just think about that....no need to freak out cause a friendship is more important to me than anything else...jsut had to clear the air about that though..."

something like that...(improvise though ) it worked for me...and i have been married 2 years this halloween

good luck bud

"To live is to die....but living is to die slowly..why waste time on trivial things just play as hard as you can"

I want to see arcon or ff post here

More relationship advice? Ah, there are so many love-lorn people here on TLR aren't there? *Shakes head sadly*

I had my first girlfriend when i was about 10/11. Eggs/Abc whichever, i say, at that age, nick her hairband or something. Not so its really annoying for her but this is a great playground flirtation technique that i used.

And Zack, i agree with indy, go for it. Ever heard of "Never judge a book by its cover" same applies here. You find her attractive, your mates don't, eye of the beholder my friend. After all, what would you rather do, go out with bimbo with the personaility of a donkey, or someone not so pretty who you can have a decent conversation and have fun with?

Well I'm going to give what I developed as a strategy when I was that young...*sighs*...lol

Okay, well just drop hints that you like her, subtle like y'know?

Eventually if she starts to come back at 'cha with the flirtation then you start that and eventually say something like "oh yeah we could do that if we were going out" or "yeah if we were going out"

Then she *should* say something like "are you asking me out?" or something of the like. This seems to work quite well for me but I don't know what American or European chicks are like aye.

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