of course its insulting

"What? Another girl! Tell me my boy. *whispers* what have you been doing?" - Tobias

Yeah, that's extremely insulting.

"None of the people I would normally talk to are here, so how are you doing?"

I would instantly get mad, and probably say something like

"Screw you, ****! I don't appreciate being a back up friend! Pishh!"

It's only insulting if you think of yourself as A-list.


Sir Spectre


Like Master Yoda's speak, Olde English is, yes? Hehmmmmhaha!
-- From the play "Zlothello"

Well, I did think I was an A-List friend. She was/is....I dunno, my Best friend...

Life: No one gets out alive.

Owch.... Sorry RILMS.

The screw you thing I think might be very appropriate in this situation (don't take my advice)

lol, well, I did that part already. She is corrently blocked on my MSN list, and I told her to frack off. But I'm going to be seeing her at Halloween Party this Friday.....atleast I'll be Drinking

Life: No one gets out alive.

Do you think of him/her as your A-list? if so, then it is insulting. Just degrade him/her to your b-list as well. It has to go both ways.

Is it me or is this whole A-list/B-list thing insulting anyway??!!

If someone told me that I was an "A-list" friend I'd be just as insulted....I think anyone who makes these sorts of comparisons are too shallow for me to call a friend in the first place.

A friend is a friend....friends don't make these sorts of comparisons....you should value your friends equally, no matter how often you see or speak to them...

@RILMS I feel sorry for you, because being told something like that by your supposed best friend must have been gutting....but...!...tell her to go feck herself and find someone who will appreciate you for who you are.

i would say that calling someone blist friend was not only insulting but was MEANT TO BE insulting
unless of course the person has lists c d e f g etc in which case the person is a nutter and should be treated with extreme caution

I would drop-kick them in the head.....

Touch me and die..no thats not a threat, its an invatation...

I would drop-kick them in the head.....

Touch me and die..no thats not a threat, its an invatation...

It is very insulting, it's like saying that your backup (ie, if one friend cancles coming out, then your "friend" calls ans asks you to come out instead, but without saying about the other friend)

"A TopGun through and through"

@RILMS, is this friend of yours the one "with benefits" or is that another?

As for the whole A-List, B-List thing, I have never heard that before being used with individual people.


Sir Spectre


Like Master Yoda's speak, Olde English is, yes? Hehmmmmhaha!
-- From the play "Zlothello"

Steel said,

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unless of course the person has lists c d e f g etc in which case the person is a nutter and should be treated with extreme caution

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LOL

@ Spectre,

No, this is another friend. Incedently, she is also an ex of mine. A friend, but sadly, no benefits.

@ All,

I've been a b-list friend before, I'm sure everyone has. But it was said with out being told. In other worlds, you could tell by the way you acted with each other. It just wasn't said. She's the first to accually tell me to my face, thats the insulting part. And oddly enough, the majority of my friends here don't think it's a big deal.

Life: No one gets out alive.