" . . . kinda hard to aim . . ."
Exactly! and that is why I will always prefer Starlancer to Freelancer whilst wishing that I had the Freelancer universe to play in. Takes skill to fly a ship in Starlancer.
Just practice your flying
It's surprising how important the flying is to my gaming happiness. Freelancer was a huge let down for me (though lots of people like it, I know) because of it's control system. I did try, honestly I did, but I just hated it.
So I was looking forward to X2 but that was awful too but in a different way. In X2 flying skills didn't help you. He who had the best ship won, for the most part and the AI often caused combat to end when it incompetently rammed you. D'oh!
I have faith though. Another game to carry on the Wing Commander genre will arrive eventually.
Ban REVERSE THRUST! Fly something other than a phoenix for a change!