Yeah, there are other posts but anyway there seem to be 2 schools of thought on this :
1. All the VHF's handle like buckets. Be glad you've got the firepower, up your mouse sensitivity a bit. Think of them as tanks in space.
2. The less hull damage it can sustain the better it handle. So from best to worst Anubis-->Eagle-->Sabre-->Titan.
Personally i think they all handle like buckets, if you get one you are going to get hit quite a bit. Makes you a better pilot tho. Upping the mouse sensitivity helps alot. Personally i settled for the sabre, its not like you need the extra hull power anyway and energy considerations fade away once you hav nomads. What swung it was the forward turret (and the starwars look
) tho you can get a FF turret mod now.