Tue Nov 02, 2004 3:02 am by H.Q. Victor
A little feed back from just me. I came to this site the first time, looking for freelancer game ideas, an little after that, mods. Then I joined and asked a question in discussion. I asked if anyone had built an Enterprise D ship for the game. I had played the enterprise show shop and liked it. I was told first, wrong forum. Second I was defended by another as not knowing, I was new. At first, I thought it was a US site, all Americans on the site.
I hung around for awhile, and noticed different type names and began checking profiles and discovered people from different countries posting here. That made my day. I had a way to meet people from different countries with out having to travel there. Thus began the silly sometimes questions, what do you like, or where are you from, ect type questions. I asked them, not to start a thread, but I wanted to know more about the people posting here. I had an image of people in my mind. Now, I needed to add to it.
Threads have filled in a lot. We have threads of real names, faces, food we like, cars we like, etc. Th picture is more complete. What can not be put in, always, is the feeling of the person, the personality. It was posted in another thread, that some who post here, are totally different than the on-line personality. I liked to dig a little deeper to learn more. And guess what, I met people I liked, though, culturally different, likes different, personality, different. Some who liked my stories, some who don’t, some who rarely post in my threads. Some, due to restrictions here, have had e-mail talks about subjects. Some were agreeable, some it came to a “agree to disagree” situation and move one to other topics.
I have had conversations in threads with some , at the time, did not know were only 10, 11, or 14 years old, others that were closer or older than myself. Wisdom comes with time and is not in a set age group. I have spoke with an 18 year old that seems to have more wisdom than I could hope to have. Not everyone is on the same page of ideas in life. But, That does not stop me from wanting to here them out. There are areas in life that I am completely inflexible in my opinion, but that has not stopped me from hearing an opposing pint of view, or wanting to understand why someone has that point of view.
Al this said, the forums, are an area that can take you to distant places and people, different than yourselves, or very much alike. Take advantage of that. Explore, learn things and hold the things you like, and leave those you disagree with. Take advantage of the opportunity, you may not get latter in life. Maybe, you will make a life log friend in the process.