Cap, I hate to say it, but you don't have a clue. People in depression, can not simple get a "Grip". It doesn't work that way, I know from first hand experiance. Unless others interven, it only gets worse. Telling people to get over it or get a grip, is like telling a house fire to put itself out, no can do. Note, this is not a flame, but a serious rebuttel.
Mine almost cost me my life, if it was not for a couple of people that stepped in when they did. I did try to commit suicide, they just got to me before all the pills kicked in. Its the reason for my high blood pressure to day. In the ER it was 264/165. The docs were amazed I was still alive and not had a heart atack.
So, be a little more sensitive please