*I guess its DAnie Odendal*

of course! I should have guessed! gold old erm whatsisname!

lmao...I think you met him back when you first arrived at Umboto...he was still in charge of making the fire back then.


BTW to you have Mos's "Unhappy Birthday"?

rubbish then wasnt he, I had to show you great juju with box of firesticks or we'd have all been eaten by lions. you lot ran off at sight of big magic fire from boss' hand as i recall?

and i bought 200 of your cattle, for a bag of beads, a mirror, and 2 rolls of brighly coloured cloth.

we had stick and stones ya know.
And the tribe is still angry at the way you cheated us out of cattle...you're not planning on coming back are you?


Another question a bit more on topic...lets say guy and girl loves each other, but they live in different towns, got different jobs, which one of the two should give up their job to be with the other? And is it fair for one to ask the other to give up his/her job?

they could both have cars and meet halfway for consenting adult fun at a motel hey its variety that keeps a relationship going!

lol and if they want to get married?

Then whoever has the less well-paying, less established career will give it up, I guess.

well it doesn't necessarily have to be to each other, does it? honestly Carla you think in such innocent terms at times, this is the 21st Century y'know!

well the answer's obvious. clearly its got to be the woman, no man worth his salt would even entertain it. anyway I bet the guys happy with the way it is at the moment, he doesnt have her hassling his space and leaving her stuff lying around. always a bad sign that when it happens. I knew when Mrs Taw started leaving her toothbrush and hair stuff and makeup and ugh! *unmentionables* behind that i wasnt going to be able to get shot of her. and that was just last week!

he doesnt exist

Why is it so impossible for the man to move? What if the woman has a better job and gets more money? Or if it is possible for the guy to get a better job in her town?

Oh it's easy for the man to move. He just won't because he needs to demonstrate that he's the boss.

men *look of disgust on face*

he csn't because is is buried under your shopping bags

listen no man moves into his g'fs place unless his own place is so bad he can't stand it anymore - trust me on this!

because they want to show that they're boss?