Maybe time for you to just experiment and keep track of the results. Experiences of the heart really are a trial and error thing because no two people are identical enough in every single way to guaranty that what works for one person will work the same for the other.

imho if you really want to be with her i'd suggest you wait it out, be her friend and see how things work out. don't get pissed off and leave if she gets a bf. thats not the way to go if you really want her.

Your in the biggy then. You have to walk the line between good friendv and friend I could go out with. Quite hard as flirting can push you either way.

Just ask her when you're both alone, "Do you think there is any chance of us hooking up at some time in the future?" but say it cool like you want to shag her but are'nt really fussed if she says no. That way you'll know for sure, and if she's not interested you can move on to greener pastures (with minimal ego damage). Rather than spending 6 months pissing around and killing yourself over whether she's keen or not. Which is the worst things you can do, cause if you haven't got your crap sorted by then she'll never go for you. Unless you're going for the friends falling in love thing, which seriously has about a 5% success rate. Your actually more likely to end up around her place, watching her kissing her new boyfriend, which doesn't matter cause you're such a good friend.

Im speaking from experience as well mate, I've been there before and it's best that you don't drag it out.

Edited by - Mustang on 7/1/2004 8:00:20 AM

Dah, just find another one - there are more chicks in the world than us, so where's the problem?

Wisdom comes with age. But sometimes age comes alone...

"Friends" is the kiss of death in a woman's eyes. Never Ever be friends with a girl if you want to get in her pants.
In woman speak "Friends" means
1. I know you like me
2. I don't like you enough to have sex with you
3. I like the attention that you give me

If you already have the stigma of being her friend the only chance you have now is to go out with other women and make it a point to tell her all about it. This will make her rethink your position as a friend because most woman only want what they can't have. Also you don't look desperate and she will start thinking that she might have mislabled you because all these other women want to go out with you.

Don't get this confused with the after you have had sex with her "Friends". This type of friend is the.
1. I don't want to have sex with you anymore
2. Incase the person I do want to have sex with doesn't want me I am going to keep you in the bullpen (on standby for you non baseball types)

friends=secondary male for non-sexual relationship. forget her.

..She looks like the real thing
She tastes like the real thing
My fake plastic love...

id kill to be in a situation like yours vi...

I had pink chickens on my roof last night.....

Yeah. You're beginning to sound desperate here. Lord knows how you come of "up close and personal."

she smiled her smile of dimpled grace
then left you here in outer space.

Nomads in Manhattan!!!








Edited by - falcon 2 on 7/1/2004 11:30:05 PM

Okay ..... nice poem ...... but anything to add to the discussion ?

For the love of god krazed and falcon - don't post such utter crap in threads please...............

Spam is pretty deplorable when done with such blind intent. So stop it please!

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friends=secondary male for non-sexual relationship.

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Ha! that's about the long and short of it though. If you want a friend go for it but don't have delusions of you sleeping with her, cause it just aint going to happen.