the choice is ALWAYS yours.
I started smoking quite "late" in the grand scheme of things - I was 17. I was on a surfing holiday in cornwall and accepted a joint from someone at a beach party. I coughed my guts up, but then for some reason, chose to carry on smoking for the rest of the night. By the end of the year I was smoking 20 marlboro red a day and copious amounts of dope - and becoming a uni student very soon after really didn't help my cause.
I have absolutely no idea why I decided to smoke....I just did. There was no peer pressure, I started in the most chilled of places and my friends at the time didn't start with me....in fact, when I started smoking I only knew one other person who did too.
The wierdest thing about it is that prior to that night I was a complete anti-smoker...of the worst kind too...the kind that preaches to smokers about how they will die a horrible death.
And what is it about beer and cigarettes? Well for a start, beer tastes great, you either like it or you don't. Together though, they're a great combination. I drink neat vodka a lot and I find that a cigarette can take away the sometimes "harsh" gagging effect the stuff has when its going down your throat.
As for the cannabis legality thing - you're absolutely right - its still 100% illegal. But due to the estimated millions of cannabis users in the uk, they had to slacken off the laws a little or else our prisons would be over-run with hippys instead of murderers. I've had two cautions for cannabis use outside of my home, both of which involved the police officer saying something similar to "for ****s sake man, why are you being so stupid? Everyone uses the stuff, even my serg. has admitted it in the past, just don't do it where conservative middle-aged fuddy-duddys will see or else you're gonna end up with a criminal record". Best thing about the second one is that he gave me a cup of tea and a few biscuits as he interviewed me, because he thought I might get the munchies!!
hehehe. They're only concerned about the big time dealers - even the small-time "dealers who just sort their friends out" often slip through the net with a 50 quid fine. Fact of the matter is that the police would much rather see people hugging each other after a night out than glassing each other because they lost a "drink 10 pints in 30 minutes" competition.
But yes you're right...its illegal