yeh u r def. running urself down, that way all ur negative perceptions come true and u just go deeper into thinking the worst.

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whadda ya call them..... those taht god patched up in a hurry to overpopulate the planet.

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Haha great line, I might have to steal that one of you kimk.

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Haha great line, I might have to steal that one of you kimk.

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YOU CAN NEVER EVER STEAL ANYTHING FROM ME!!!!!!!!!!!

MUAHAHAHAHA

So, kimk, any progress yet? (just curious - you see, after all those words of great wisdom I uttered () I expect you DO sth at last)

Just remember...if the world didn't suck, we'd all fall off.

kimk, think positive m8, it will work out

"What? Another girl! Tell me my boy. *whispers* what have you been doing?" - Tobias

can't agree with these guys enough...its all about that 1 minute of confidence...don't worry about it, if you sound a little shakey she might think its cute...

*rubs kimk's shoulders in an over-masculine "go git her" kinda way*

go on mate, repeat after me, "hi....my name's...."

good luck, by the way, i think theres 3 ways to a womans heart, romance, or looks, and finaly, mad social skills. Find one your good at and focus on it

1)hardest to ahieve, but its pretty much the killshot, I havent figured out how to exactly do this, bu it requires some of #2 and 3
2) if your ripped (even jesus ripped, youve seen him, hes kinda ripped) then just start up a smoothe conversation, the work does itself... sometimes, depends on the girl.
3) just find out what shes interested in... then talk about it, but smoothe, keep a cool head.

just my thoughts... good luck with the chick


and you were expecting a fight scene or something?

ripped?

"What? Another girl! Tell me my boy. *whispers* what have you been doing?" - Tobias

ripped? as in clothes ripped? i have to rip my pants!!?? i think i'll go with 3. and how on earth do you know they think its cute if i stumble over my words? you have experience? a guy came up to you all stutterin? i'm not gonna jump to conclusions here..

ripped as in you're cut, as in you have mussles and you show it. Like you have a six pack that are rock hard, bulging arms and legs. Stuff like that.

It's a NA thing.

Life: No one gets out alive.

ok, oh and kimk DO NOT push your luck, she wont like it

"What? Another girl! Tell me my boy. *whispers* what have you been doing?" - Tobias

ff, why? you have expereience?

OOC.. he who mentioned somehting about how it was going.. well i posted straight after i saw the person. so it'll be this saturday. about 5am GMT time.

no kimk, its something my parents have told me

"What? Another girl! Tell me my boy. *whispers* what have you been doing?" - Tobias

Ripped: American slang. Formerly meant to be drunk in the 70's and 80's. Now means to be physically fit and well muscled from working out (usually with weights) in the gym or by some other physical fitness regimen.

Note 1: She was looking at you? 50% of your mission is accomplished. She noticed you.

Note 2: Don't try to be something you are not ... except do try overcome your shyness you'll never know what can happen without try talking to her.

Note 3: Pretending to be something you are not is a recipe for disaster. Leave the cool lines for guys who are used to lying.

Note 4: Breaking the ice issues. Just say hello, tell her your name. Tell her you've been trying to get up the nerve to say hello to her. Be honest.

Note 5: If you think you've "convinced" her that you are some kind of guitar genius, tell her you are not and tell her you were pretending because you were trying to get her attention. Even consider apologizing for the deceit. Who knows, maybe she'll offer to teach you or tutor you.